the bead cabinet grows up

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“The child gives us a beautiful lesson – that in order to form and maintain our intelligence, we must use our hands.”  – Maria Montessori

The beauty and efficacy of Montessori pedagogical materials is well-established. Designed specifically for the developmental stage of the children in a given classroom, they meet a child where they are in the moment. There are a handful of Montessori materials, however, that follow the child from one classroom level to the next. Their presentation to children, as they age, grows in complexity and deeper in understanding.  One such material that finds a home both in Primary and Elementary classrooms is the Bead Cabinet, that big and beautiful collection of squaring (short) chains and cubing (long) chains from one to ten. Many fused squares and a single fused cube for each number is also displayed.  An emphasis on counting was present in those younger environments, but this would surely be “baby stuff” to a six-year old. Instead, our work in the Elementary years, the Second Plane of Development, will range from seeing patterns, skip counting, multiplication tables, and a nascent understanding of squaring and cubing.

The colorful array of linked chains, squaring chains arranged on horizontal shelves that gain in length from one to ten, and cubing chains hanging vertically, are all presented similarly. Each chain, each number, has a corresponding box of arrow labels, in that chain’s color, that always include the cardinal numbers up to that number and then its multiples. The box that accompanies the squaring four-chain for example, contains the labels 1, 2, 3, 4, 8, 12, and 16. The last label arrow in a series is wider, to denote that it is the square of that number. The cubing chain has a matching color box with cardinal numbers, wider arrows for the squares it contains, and the widest of them all, the mother of all labels if you will, is the cube. The arrows contained in the light blue cubing box to match the five-chain for example, will have 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 10, 15, 20, 25 (wider arrow), 30, 35, etc… ending with the widest arrow for 125. The arrows for 50, 75, and 100 are wide, and children will often place a fused square above each of these arrows, placing the cube at the very end.

The work is somewhat intuitive. The child lays out a given chain (while there is no set sequence, squaring chains precede cubing chains; the one and two chains are actually a bit trickier!). Once the chain is completed, the child recites the multiples, skip-counting to the end of the chain. Some classrooms have children write these as multiplication tables, while others have pre-printed recording sheets. Once laid out, there are a myriad of possibilities that two or three children can investigate, all in service of memorization. Children can recite the multiples progressively and then regressively. The first child flips an arrow over and another child has to name the missing multiple. Every other arrow can be flipped over and the children recite the missing multiples. Eventually all the arrows are flipped or removed, and the child(ren) skip count the multiples.

As is usually the case, the ten chain, which has one hundred beads, gets special treatment. Lay the squaring chain of 100 on the rug. Ask the child if they can fold it into a square. Superimpose the hundred square on top to show equality. Ten taken ten times is one hundred. Unfold the chain. Lay out the green unit arrows and have the child place them under the first nine beads. What comes next? The child places the 10 – 90 arrows appropriately. And finally? The large red 100 arrow. Have the children close their eyes while you remove an arrow. What’s missing? Everyone closes their eyes while a child removes an arrow. What’s missing? Later, Where is 37?  Where is 84?  Where is 61?  Or, someone (teacher or child) points to any one bead and everyone else names it. Note if a child can count backwards from 60 to get 59 as opposed to starting with 50. Skip count by tens backwards.

The cubing chain for ten often represents the final chain in the sequence, though this should not be misconstrued. The squaring and cubing chains should be done repeatedly, using the full complement of the work over and over. Carefully give a lesson on how to transport the thousand chain (it’s heavy!). Lay the long chain on a rug in ten parallel rows of ten ten-bars each, as it is when hanging. Cover with the 100 squares to show equality. Stack the 100 squares into a cube. Ten tens make one hundred, and ten hundreds make a thousand. Place the thousand cube next to the stack of hundred squares. How many beads does this chain have? One thousand! Let’s see what that looks like. Let’s carefully stretch this chain out.  Note: Some classrooms have super long and narrow rugs just for this purpose. Unfold the chain of 100 to compare. Count together from 1 – 9, then by tens to one hundred, laying arrows down as you go. When you get to one hundred, place the red 100 arrow, but also a hundred square next to it.  Continue counting with the children by 10’s to 200 One hundred ten, one hundred twenty, one hundred thirty…  Place the 200 arrow and a second hundred square. When you reach 1000, have the child place the largest arrow (green), a hundred square, and then the thousand cube. All the activities we employed with the chain of 100 can be used here.

As a teacher educator, if I have a group of thirty adult learners in an Upper Elementary course, and I’m covering squaring and cubing, the notation, the superscript 2 or 3, there is almost always two or three students who will come up to me during a break, and somewhat abashedly tell me that up until that day, they never understood why we called a number times itself  “squared” and when multiplied, “cubed”. There is no underestimating the lasting impact of using your hands to manipulate materials such as the bead cabinet, with engagement, over many years.

the constructor

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Dr. Montessori often used the word, “costruire”, the translation from the Italian being “to build, create, to construct”. Before children can become Greeks (working abstractly), they must first be Egyptians (use their hands). One could write a treatise (or two!) on the myriad of ways a Montessori prepared environment provides opportunities for a child to construct, both physically, cognitively, and even as a metaphor for emotional and social growth. Specific to a manipulative material, the Geometric Cabinet can serve as an excellent model for the concept of construction.

The Geometric Cabinet is one of the more important and versatile geometry materials we have in our Montessori classroom. It is, or should be, present in every Early Childhood and Lower Elementary classroom, but it is also used (more likely borrowed) in many Upper Elementary environments as well. It is a beautiful material to display. The large wooden cabinet with six drawers brings attention to itself and adds to the impressive array of our Montessori environments.

Demonstration Tray

Traditionally, a “Demonstration Frame”, that sits on top of the cabinet, holds the Circle, Square, and an Equilateral Triangle. In some schools the order of the drawers differs from Early Childhood to Elementary environments. It is also important to note that there is no set of specific figures present in the cabinet. Certainly, there is always a Triangle Drawer, a Polygons drawer, a Rectangle drawer, and a Circle drawer. There is almost always a Quadrilateral drawer, but the sixth drawer can sometimes be Curved Figures, but a Miscellaneous Figures drawer is not uncommon!.

The first drawer displays triangles; acute-scalene, right scalene, obtuse-scalene, acute isosceles, right isosceles, and obtuse isosceles. The drawers present these shapes in two rows of three. How to order them? One suggestion would be the scalene, isosceles, and equilatreal across the top row to classify by sides  the bottom row to show examples by angle. Right-angled in the first column, obtuse-angled in the middle column, acute-angled in the right. We put those after the right as they are both determined by their relationship to a 90 degree angle.

The Geometric Cabinet

The second drawer displays quadrilaterals; trapezium (sometimes referred to as a common quadrilateral), parallelogram, trapezoid, and rhombus, The third drawer displays rectangles. There are six shapes total, five rectangles with gradually lengthening bases, and one square in the bottom right corner. The fourth drawer is a set of six regular polygons, and they are arranged by number of sides. The pentagon, hexagon, septagon make up the first row. Octagon, nonagon, and decagon round out the second row. The fifth drawer contains the circles. Again there are six, of different diameters starting in the top left (5cm) and ending in the bottom right (10cm). The 10cm circle matches the demonstration tray circle mentioned above. These drawers, with these figures, are common to every Geometric Cabinet.

The Geometric Cabinet

The Geometric Cabinet

A common, and desired sixth drawer contains curved figures. The oval and ellipse certainly, quatrefoils and a curviliinear triangle maybe. The curvilinear triangle can also be called a Rouleaux Triangle, named after Franz Reuleaux,a 19th-century German engineer who pioneered the study of machines for translating one type of motion into another, and who used Reuleaux triangles in his designs. As one could probably guess, the design itself predates him by centuries. Perhaps he had a better PR firm? The contents of some sixth drawers, as mentioned earlier, will use the drawer for miscellaneous figures, like the delta (kite) or a convex quadrilateral (boomerang).

The Cabinet is supported in both Early Childhood and Elementary classrooms with cards that match each figure. Typically the child starts with cards that are solid figures, then those with thick outlines, and finally a thin line outline. Labels for each figure can also be purchased or teacher-written. A companion material would ceratinly be the Constructive Triangles. It even has construct in its name, after all. It also represents a material that is presented not just in early childhood and lower elementary classrooms, but upper elementary as well.

toddlers and teens

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When teacher-education is done right, a bond is formed between the presenter and the group of adult learners. If both parties are open, engaged, attentive, and respectful, the dialogues are more meaningful, the practice sessions are more energized, and it’s common for everyone to experience a “flow experience”, a concept developed by psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, who studied how Montessori education can be structured to achieve it. I’ve found, in these decades of teacher-education, that the same is true for quality training course. “Where did the afternoon go?” This trusted relationship continues after the course is over, when these adult learners have questions once they are in their first months of teaching. If passion has been sparked and that flame nurtured, it remains. Last week, an email from Via, in Bandung, was in my inbox. What does it mean that the first stage of Montessori Development and the third stage are the same?

There are several similarities between children birth – 6 and 12 – 18.  First, consider that the child in the First Plane is orienting themselves to this new world and environment in which they find themselves. They are learning new skills, certainly, but also observe them cognizant of being an individual, identifying themselves as part of a family, defining their relationship with their caregivers, and discovering their role. They are, at birth, nascent human beings.  A teenager, on the cusp of puberty at the Third Plane of Development is also orienting themselves to a new world, the world and environment of adulthood. They are learning new skills, certainly, but they are now cognizant of becoming an adult, seeing their changing identification within their family, defining a new relationship with parents, thinking about who they are, what music they like, what books they enjoy, how they feel about larger societal issues.  They are, at 12 years old, nascent adults. 

How do we see these manifest in their behavior? There are similarities here as well, especially noticeable if you’ve had the opportunity to parent or teach children in both planes. Children in the first plane are highly egocentric; they are the center of their world. “What do I want right now?” “What do I need right now?”  The child in the third plane is similarly motivated. “Everyone will be staring at me” “No one understands me”.  Children in the first plane, especially in the second subplane, have a complex relationship with their caregivers. Observe the five-year old on the playground who runs to their father to get picked up only to immediately wiggle away to climb up the slide. Observe the 15 year old who wants to be independent. “Why can’t I go to the concert at the arena?  You never let me do anything, I’m suffocating in this house!” but the next minute wants to curl up on the couch with mom or dad and watch old cartoons.

What’s fascinating to consider is that Dr. Montessori made these assertions well before science and medicine had access to brain studies. And yet, we know now that the first and third planes are both times of tremendous brain and neural growth. It’s common knowledge that from birth to six is the greatest growth, but less so that the second period of greatest growth is from twelve to eighteen years of age. First and Third represent growth. Second and Fourth represent consolidation.

follow the child

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The phrase “follow the child,” used in Montessori terms, is an axiom in the truest sense of the word: it is a truth that is self-evident. Upon these three words a pedagogy was built, and this system continues to expand well past the 100th anniversary of its inception. The fact that the world continues to catch up with a model which has been established and successful for more than a century serves as confirmation of its validity. As is the case with so many concepts we encounter in Montessori education, “follow the child” exists as a literal exhortation while at the same time revealing a deeper understanding of child development. Follow the child! As teachers (and good parents), we are exhorted to dictate less information and to allow more exploration. If the child shows an interest in the sensorial materials, the adult gives a lesson! When a child asks, “How do I add these if their denominators aren’t the same?,” the teacher presents the fraction circles. Follow the interest! Follow the question! Follow the child.

In a larger sense, “follow the child” is also a reflection of two overarching themes. First, the adult’s role is one of preparation and guidance and as a facilitator of the natural process that marks each child’s development. Second, a strong measure of independence is both a more humane approach to education and a proven component of a more profound level of learning.

Following is riskier than leading. For one thing, you have to watch where you step. For the teacher, this means adopting a level of comfort with trust, yes, but a trust that is buttressed by experience. For the child, being followed also involves trust: trusting that the adult, whether parent or teacher, is there to point things out along the way, provide support in case of a stumble, and allow him or her the space to walk.

montessori’s living legacy

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As part of the celebration of Dr. Montessori’s birthday last summer, I was asked to participate in a global, daylong series of webinars, sponsored by Montessori-Haus Asia that spanned five time zones: China, Australia, Indonesia, Kazakhstan, and my house in Berwick, Maine, United States.  As a nine hour event, it was meant to reach an international audience with the question, “One hundred fifty-five years after Maria Montessori’s birth, what is her legacy?” The word legacy seems, at least for me, to connote something that is finite. It was accomplished, in the past tense, and it’s been left to a school, a community, the world. That doesn’t really fit how I see Dr. Montessori’s work, and that formed the basis of my session. I see the Montessori method as alive and current. What she initiated as supposition, has become accepted conclusion.

I talked about the enormity of research, really over the last 50 years, be it educational or even neurological, that supports what Dr. Montessori somehow intuited over a century ago. They are too numerous to list here, but here are a few, just in the last 20 years, to highlight a small fraction. A study comparing Montessori and non-Montessori elementary students found Montessori children showed “superior outcomes in reading, math, executive function, and social problem-solving, suggesting the method supports both academic and social development.” (Lillard & Else-Quest (2006, Science) Research following Montessori middle school graduates into high school found they “performed as well or better than peers in math and science, indicating Montessori builds a strong foundation for later academic success”. (Dohrmann et al. 2007, Journal of Research in Childhood Education) An early difficulty interpreting Montessori studies was that it was conducted by Montessorians, which is of course, just bad science. There is much more rigor in these more recent studies. A randomized controlled trial of Montessori preschool programs showed “children had better academic outcomes, social understanding, and mastery orientation compared to peers in conventional classrooms.” (Lillard et al. (2017, Frontiers in Psychology) According to another study, using experience sampling (when subjects record their feelings and thoughts in real time), Montessori adolescents reported “higher levels of intrinsic motivation, interest, and engagement in learning than peers in traditional schools.” Rathunde & Csikszentmihalyi (2005, American Journal of Education)  A similar study found Montessori students demonstrated “greater social cognition and positive peer interactions, suggesting the prepared environment fosters not only academic but also social-emotional growth.” (Lopata, Wallace, & Finn (2005, Journal of Research in Childhood Education). And last Spring, I read a fascinating study, reported in MontessoriPublic, titled, “Learning by Heart or with Heart: Brain Asymmetry Reflects Pedagogical Practices”, published in Brain Sciences (August 2023). This study used “neuroimaging to compare brain hemisphere asymmetry in schoolchildren educated in traditional versus Montessori settings.” On admissions tours at the Cornerstone School, I often joke, sort of, that, “Montessori kids are just wired differently”. I was right! Traditional‐schooled children showed “greater rightward asymmetry—linked with fixed, situation-specific memorization, but Montessori students showed left-dominant asymmetry, associated with semantic encoding and flexible conceptual connections.”  As Montessori educators, we feel that our classrooms support not only  in-depth learning, but also a deeply integrated experience that weaves knowledge in all curriculum areas into an integrated whole. A tapestry of understanding. It’s gratifying to know the concepts which Dr. Montessori felt were true, are in fact demonstrably true.

fingers pointing at the moon

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Masha spent the first few weeks in Tel Aviv in a bomb shelter. In an incredible act of bad timing, her long-awaited move to Israel coincided with the missile exchanges of mid-June. I had landed in Jakarta shortly after and we started an exchange of long emails that tended to run to the more thoughtful and philosophical. I met Masha in Chicago in the summer of 2023 when she was enrolled in a teacher-education program run by the Center for Jewish Montessori Teacher Education, a course I co-directed.. Two summers later and both of us were a long way from home. She wrote that she was curious as to how the Montessori schools in Southeast Asia were the same, how they differed. The question got me thinking in a broader sense, about how the spectrum of Montessori is interpreted across cultures.

I’ve written before regarding my experience of teaching adult learners in disparate parts of the Montessori world; Seoul, Savannah, Ghana, Charleston, Haiti, Baltimore, Shanghai, Buffalo, Florida, Chicago, Portsmouth, and Indonesia both decades ago and more recently last month, in Jakarta. The lens I would use was grounded in geography and setting and even school budgets; a Montessori classroom in an airplane hangar in Carrefour, Haiti, a $100,000 worth of materials with which to present in Shanghai. Another lens is theological. While most all of my work has been in secular programs, I’ve also been fortunate to teach against the backdrop of the world’s most populous religious traditions.

There’s a universal experience that I’ve felt with Montessori, especially now having been associated with Christian, Jewish, and Muslim communities of adult learners. A commonality among religions and the non-religious as to what inspires parents for their children, and what they hope a school environment will provide and nurture. Raising independent creative thinkers in nurturing classrooms that provide for the emotional and social development, not just academic achievement seems to be something that doesn’t care who you pray to. So things like parsha and davening, the Koran, the Torah, catechism, parables, learning Hebrew or using an Arabic moveable alphabet, those get woven into a tapestry of Montessori, quite easily. Like any course, there’s a difference in orthodoxy that’s reflected in the training, but there’s a baseline respect that you expect adult learners to share with the cohort, and that’s always been the case with my groups over the years. I don’t know as much about the scope of schools where these teachers will be guiding children. It’s clear that there’s a diversity in socio-economics, as there is everywhere, including the U.S., but in developing countries those lines are more jagged. I saw bead frames made of plywood and string instead of maple and gauge wire, but it’s a bead frame. Adds the same way. There’s a Buddhist concept that metaphors different religions as fingers pointing to the moon.  Some people, even and in some cases especially the learned and “holy”, get caught up in whose finger is more devout, which finger is more accurately pointing to the transcendent and resplendent. Forgetting the moon entirely.

During a speech at the Montessori Teaching College in London, Mahatma Gandhi, referencing a speech by Dr. Montessori, famously said, “If there is to be peace in the world, it will begin with children.” Children tend to see the moon, so perhaps the universal appeal of Montessori to parents can play some role in resolving conflict. The subjunctive use of the word “if” has always interested me. Gandhi was hopeful, but from experience a realist as well. Masha writes that the ceasefire has allowed her more time up and out instead of down and in. She’s looking for work, planning on contacting Montessori schools, applying for a position. Masha is both kind-hearted and open-minded, curious, and growth-centered. She’ll be fine, great in fact. I hope she keeps writing.

jakarta june

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First, remember that sambal is included with every meal. Lunch and dinner bento boxes will always have a snowball of rice, wrapped in twisted paper. “It’ wouldn’t ‘s not a meal if it doesn’t have rice”, one dear friend informed me years ago during my first trips to Indonesia, and I’m sure her opinion has not changed. There will be beef or chicken, tempeh or tofu, cucumbers raw or greens cooked, but do investigate the sambol first. This relish of hot pepper and oils comes in varying degrees of heat, the most mild being “oh wow, (running nose sniff), that is… (sweating forehead) powerful” and progressing to “I think just a bit on the tip of my tongue will be good for the day”. At no point should you look around at your fellow diners and note how all of them have dumped the entirety of their sambol, heaping tablespoons of magma, onto to their food without concern or comment. Do not feel pressure to emulate.

So yes, there is heat in this beautiful country. Heat in the tropical day and reflected evening, heat in the bright batik colors of shirts, dresses and hijabs, heat in the sambol and black pepper sauce, but also in a collective passion for Montessori education, still in a nascent stage for Lower Elementary. Consider this a note from abroad, saying that Montessori is alive and well, and well, growing in interest and scope in Java, Sumatra, Surabaya. After five virtual webinars in the Spring, concentrating on philosophy and methods, it was an honor to participate in the first comprehensive teacher-education program for Montessori Lower Elementary in Indonesia, and the first to run for two consecutive weeks, This cohort of twenty plus adult learners, working through Montessori Haus-Asia, spent a week each learning and practicing Arithmetic and Geometry. It’s easy to say that they were among the most hardest-working and practicing groups I’ve engaged with as a teacher-educator, a role I’ve played with TEPs since 1992. I often tell groups that a successful training session is really a partnership; a high level of positive energy that both presenter and adult learners bring to the process, is crucial to its result. These past two weeks were testament to that supposition, and very much looking forward to more to come in 2026. Bring on the sambol.

montessori without materials

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A dear friend messaged me in late December. Her small-community Montessori school in upstate New York had suffered a fire about halfway through their Chanukah break. She had started, directed, and taught this single Primary Classroom for decades in a beautiful classroom in her home. Persuaded to open an Elementary program by parents not eager to leave the nest after Primary, she re-doubled her efforts, took training for this new level, and secured separate spaces for both classrooms at a local temple. After the requisite two years of trial and error, mistakes made and lessons learned (by both students and teacher), they had reached a state of peace and learning, in space and spirit to match the Primary room.  “It wasn’t perfect, but it was lovely”. The fire destroyed the library and all the musical instruments. The smoke damage rendered the classroom materials unusable. As any founder/owner knows, most every piece was purchased and maintained by her, a summing of a life’s work and devotion. “I am gutted.”

Soon after, she sent photos of the fire, taken by a firefighter who is also a photographer. After a career that spans four decades, I have been in countless Montessori classrooms, and with rare exception, they are oases of beauty and learning, simple and elegant, color and contrast. Designed to be welcoming to children, they are equally welcoming to adults. In these photos, however, fire fighters in heavy suits and trailing hoses, walk through a classroom across sodden and charred building material. The juxtaposition is startling and upsetting. Our association with a Montessori classroom, the peace, the beauty…. and elemental destruction.

A second set of photos glimpsed the first day back for the children. The Primary classroom was back in its original location, in her home. There is a paucity of materials on the shelf, those saved by being in deep storage, but the children are doing what they do, getting on with it. There are sandpaper letters forming words on a rug. A child is spooning a practical life exercise on the right while others are gathered near a window in the Sensorial area. The Elementary students, with only pencil bags and journals, are pictured in a spare church room, devoid of even appropriate furniture for children, let alone any Montessori materials. But the children are gathered at circle, as they would, most turned toward the viewer, all of them smiling. They are children, they are classmates, this is their teacher, they are together. I remarked that it was reminiscent of that scene from the Grinch that Stole Christmas (which I’m pretty sure isn’t a Chanukah movie). The presents don’t make the holiday, and the materials don’t make a Montessori classroom. I will sometimes ask my adult learners to make a hypothetical choice. Do you want to work or send your child to Classroom A that spent $50,000 to fill it with the finest, brand-new Neinhuis materials, but where there is no community, love, respect, peace?  Or Classroom B, with no materials, but loving kindness, support, mindfulness, and energy. In over 30 years of teacher education, not a single teacher has made the wrong choice.

kindness in a montessori classroom

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One positive aspect of the social media explosion is the ease of staying in touch that it affords. Alumni and their parents now share their post-Montessori school experiences more freely, because it’s just a click/send away. For some past students, their time in a Montessori school represents 12 years of their life, building a sense of ownership and home that is not forgotten by a mere change of address. In short, these schools commonly receive letters. The following is from a parent, a forwarding of an e-mail the parent had received from a high school teacher of a Montessori graduate: 

“I just wanted to let you know your son ended the semester with one of the only A+ with Honors I have ever given. On that note while I know you know how talented he is, I want to throw in my 2 cents that he should take as many AP classes as possible next year. I have tried hard to keep him challenged in my class, but he is so far beyond other students that I don’t think regular classes are the place for him.”

Truthfully, this is not uncommon for Montessori graduates, but the parent highlighted the second part of the teacher’s e-mail as being more meaningful: 

“The other thing I think is great about your son is that even though he finishes his work easily, he helps other students. There is one student in particular that sits next to him and she struggles every day. With the patience of a teacher he helps her ALL class. Sometimes I think she is going to wear on his patience but he just gently answers her questions.”

Can kindness, in fact, be taught? As Montessorians, we would answer, “No more than we ‘teach’ geography or arithmetic or science.” Rather, a Montessori school creates an environment, carves a space, and maintains a culture that allows a natural process to take place. And while it is not quantified on any conference report, the grace and courtesy aspect of our curriculum is an integral component of the fabric of our classrooms. This serves, strongly, as the tapestry on which our lessons are woven. It is so present, in fact, that a consistent comment I hear from prospective parents, even after a mere 20-minute observation, is the kindness they witness amongst our students, regardless of class level. Most Montessori teachers will relate similar comments from docents, waiters, park rangers, or other adults encountered on field trips.

One time, after an especially moving observation, a prospective parent sat with me in the hallway, asking me the hows and whys of our school. This parent enthusiastically embraced the peacefulness and kindness she saw that morning. “Does that happen every day?,” she asked, perhaps a little suspicious. At that precise moment, two 3-year-olds walked by, hand in hand, on their way to deliver a note to the office. “Yeah,” I said, “Pretty much.”

the spilled water lesson(s)

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Maria Montessori said, “Never help a child with a task in which he feels he can be successful.”  This means that a child who is learning something new should be given the freedom to try to succeed.  If we as the adults rush in to “save the child”, the child will not learn.  Children learn through their activity, through their effort, and, very importantly, through their mistakes!  

Let us consider a child in our classroom.  He approaches the practical life area and sees a tray containing a small pitcher of water and a glass; it is a pouring work to practice control of movement.  He chooses to bring it to a table where a friend awaits.  The teacher is observing closely.  Perhaps this child has been shy about trying new things and here he is, ready to take on this challenge.  He has been given a lesson in carrying a tray with water and cup.  One must be very careful when lifting the tray, to turn slowly, and place each foot slowly, one in front of the other, as you move across the room, keeping one’s eye on the tray to keep it level.  He takes one step, two steps, he hears a bird call and his attention is drawn away from the tray.  The pitcher begins to slide…..!

The teacher is still watching.  They consider to themselves, “What is the best thing that could happen right now?” “What is the worst?”  We may think that the best thing to happen would be for the child to successfully walk across the room and gently place the tray and pitcher on the table.  How proud he will be!!  He did it!  And this would be wonderful, no doubt.  But let us consider the opposite outcome.  The tray tilts, the pitcher slides, the water, pitcher and cup all spill to the ground.  What does the teacher do?  The child is upset and so the teacher comes to his side and comforts him, yes, but very quickly asks him what he needs in order to clean the spill (a rag, they are kept by the sink), how to sweep up any pieces of pitcher or cup (a broom and dustpan hangs on the wall), how to wring the wet rag out (a bucket is under the sink), and how to tell his friends and classmates to be careful of the spot until it dries.

What are the lessons learned here?

  1. My teacher loves me.  They do not yell or scold me if I make a mistake. If I make a mistake in my math or reading, they will not be angry.  I have learned that it is a good thing to try things that are difficult. I will learn more if I take risks, try difficult math problems, sound out difficult reading words.
  2. When I make a mistake, there is a way that I can make it better. I have learned that math problems can be corrected, words can be erased and spelled correctly.  If I hurt a friend’s feelings, there is a way to make it up.  My actions have consequences, and I must deal with them, but I can try to correct my mistakes.
  3. This is how a spill is cleaned, I know where the tools are and how to use them.  I have learned that I can be independent. I can take care of things on my own.  I don’t realize that the movement of my arm in wiping the spill, and the fine motor control I exercised in wringing the water out will help me later when I learn to hold a paintbrush and pencil and learn to draw and write.
  4. The whole class has learned a lesson!  All eyes are on the teacher if the water spills, to see how they will react.  There is no scolding, no impatience, no anger.  Only calm and peace.  The rest of the children learn that this is a safe place.  Engage, try, fail, try again, succeed!